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I need to explain to him that I am not a Nazi, and therefore do not want to work for his Nazi boss running a Nazi bar.
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My #lavalamp is not working right... the lava is flowing in rivers along the glass instead of bubbling up as it should. It was stored in horyzontal position in a warm environment. I already tried keeping it running for hours as well as shacking it while hot and while.cold. Any #adviceSoberly Speaking
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Guidance, tips, general advice needed for a petition I'm about to start to ensure that a bus stop gets built near my home. Has anyone done this kind of thing before What should I do to make it easy to sign, yet effective when the TTC and the city get it
Thanks!
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Groove Is In The Mind (And Behavior)
Repairing those grooves is like spackling with a spork, with no level in sight.
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How do I become a better writer when I hate reading
I like telling stories, but I dont care so much for reading them. Its not for me. But the number one advice to become a better author is to read a lot.
Is there anything else I can do
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This was my answer back in 2019
As a dyslexic, I understand the general aversion to reading. As someone who loves storytelling, I nevertheless want to be exposed to stories.
There are some life-hacks for the reading adverse that want to write.
Get the audiobook
Not only does an audiobook outsource the reading to someone else, but it is something you can listen to while travelling to work, sitting on the bus, or whatever.
Read along with the audiobook
There is a second use of audiobooks that I do not see discussed much read-alongs. As a kid, I loved read-along storybooks. I must have listened to Autobots Lightning Strike so often it must have driven my mother spare. To this day, I can still replay the whole thing in my head.
Reading along with the narrator takes the pressure off. If you want to just get used to the pleasure of holding a book and get a feel for the flow of words on a page, this is ideal.
Record audiobooks
There are sites you can go on (Ill let you find them yourself) where you can get paid to read and record audiobooks. If you are the sort of person for whom money is a great motivator then this one is for you.
Find a series to be passionate about
For me as a kid, it was robots and adventure stories. My mum gave me the Enid Blyton book, The Boy Next Door and I was soon reading every one of her books as fast as my mum could buy them for me. These days, I find those books boring and repetitive but thats just because my tastes have changed.
I know of other dyslexics who never read at all. That is until Harry Potter hit the shops. Suddenly it did not matter how exhausting it was to read, they wanted to find out what happened next.
When your passion for a series, genre, or author gets strong enough, nothing will stop you from getting hold of more and just reading the heck out of them. Terry Pratchetts books are great for this.
There is a reason us nerds and geeks tend to be experts we consume everything there is to find on our favourite subjects. Dont like fiction Try travel guides, technical manuals, science textbooks, biographies whatever floats your boat. You are not likely to learn story writing so fast but you will pick up a thing or two about tone and pacing.
Join a writers group
No matter how much you generally avoid writing, the quid quo pro of reading a little of a persons work and offering feedback in return for a load of feedback on your work forces you to read but in a fun setting with people that you can get along with.
As the reading is bite-sized and you take a break to discuss it afterwards it hardly feels like reading at all.
Learn about the theory of storytelling
There are some amazing videos on youtube that dig into the mechanics and theory of storytelling (film, TV, and books). Terms to search the heros journey, the three-act structure (also the five-act structure and seven-act structure too), and storytelling tropes.
This will turn all your Netflix binges into storyteller training. Although, I have to warn you that learning the patterns of storytelling will spoil some of the more formulaic series.
I spend a fair amount of time deconstructing the story pace in my favourite Netflix shows. I write humour and so tend to try and work out why a joke is funny. That is not for everyone but it works for me.
Make your peace with reading
Sooner or later, if you are serious about writing, you will have to make a sort of begrudging peace with reading. Some dyslexics I know invest in coloured overlays which help calm the text down and make it easier to read. Others read exclusively on their phones (dont ask me why it sounds terrible to me).
What helps is that the more you read, the more you enjoy reading and the easier it gets. Even if you are dyslexic or for some other reason a weak reader. Sure, you start off at a disadvantage but that only means you need a bit more effort to catch up. Read books you love and you will hardly notice you are doing it.
Watch and read
Some of the better adaptations are so much more enjoyable to read after you have seen the series. Good Omens is a perfect example of that. Watch it, read it, and then watch it again. It is amazing.
I would add in 2024
I stand by my answer. Id add something but I stand by it.
Today, I would add that a good streaming service can feed you many examples of good stories. You wont pick up on the word-to-word skills you might with reading but if you actively watch, you will still learn from them.
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I'm working on some artwork now for a new tattoo, and I'm only just realizing how much I've improved. It's actually kind of crazy. Even though it's almost a trace, it's got details that make it so unique and pop out.
It reminds me of why I gave up on hope. I slapped it in the face. I couldn't stand living to its expectations, so I forged my own path, into one which I feared, but one that I know can only bring results. That being the unknown. Because with complete darkness comes complete possibilities with a chance of light.
That's why I haven't given up on my hobbies. Hope, practise, and even progress to an extent, are meaningless so long as you don't pathe your own way forward. Already given the advice about copying to find a style by accident which has helped me several times now. The only way is up now it seems. It took years, but I'm finally there.
The internet was not a mistake, it was overlooked.
Not sure if this has ever been said, but there is plenty that the internet is good for. It's just that people and corporations for that matter, will use it to bad effect. News sources create aggression and scare mongering. Content creators will create drama at the worst of times. And advertisements are so invasive, you feel mentally violated.
All this literally leads to that aggression. But if you are faced with these things in a real life situation, you wouldn't react as harshly to these things. Advertisements not as invasive. Content creators or well, popular people, not as they seem online (in a good way usually), and news sources well they're still dicks, but it's avoidable and doesn't spread as frequently by word.
This is to say that we lose sight of our real selves. Ironically I couldn't say anything like this in person both because of anxiety and speech issues (+ autism). But I'll try.
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"You watch/play X thing What are you, five"
Five years old
No. I'm smart enough to know age doesn't arbitrarily measure our likes and dislikes of something.
What My Friends Mean To Me Answer #69: My friends are my shadow. They build me up as I face my hardest challenges.
Why Caloric Surplus is ESSENTIAL for Muscle Gain
A caloric surplus occurs when you consume more calories than your body burns, providing extra energy for muscle growth and recovery.
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Some good advice here. Personally, I do keep my boundaries, and I've just learned over time who I can talk about it and who I just don't. And if someone gives me grief, I just walk away. Don't even bother trying to engage. Life is too short.
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The Growth Concept
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Do you know what the name of this plant is
I admire it every week when I walk past and would love some for my garden.
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I would like to take advantage of the migration api to move vms around! But I am not familiar with storage management.
I have 10 virtual machines with 3 storage device each.
/ -> Luks encrypted image
/nix -> Qcow image
/boot -> a simple directory
How do I manage those volumes into storage pools
Do I make a storage pool per vm (=10 pools) OR
Do I make a storage pool per device type (=3 pools)
One Reason Why It Can Seem Worse After You Start To Get Better
Metaphorically, your ears are ringing.
Living with a womanizer/abuser is one of the hardest things I've had to do in my life. Looking back on it, I never realized how traumatized he made me.
It was bad enough that I once suggested that a way to stop a kid from acting on his 'unusual behaviours' (Because this is NSFW to an extent), was to snap at him.
That's what being in a shitty situation does to people sadly. I never have any thoughts like that now that I'm away from that place.
It goes to show that the people you should be mad at are often not the messengers. It's the one's who sent them. And that's a pretty accurate analogy for a lot of what is going on now. Whether it's climate change/veganism, or LGBTQ, or even on the opposite end, Trump supporters/republicans. There's a lot of different things this applies to.
Does anyone have good suggestions for cheap DIY paw paw shade covers Tentative plan right now is to use 4ft chicken wire wrapped around wooden stakes, with burlap tied to south side and up over top.
Preference goes to designs which can be made from upcycled material, or inexpensive and not terribly ecologically damaging material. Simple tools and scrappy construction only.
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Here's my 1 in 150 rule.
I may not be a very good photographer, but I learned that I'd get one great shot out of 150 taken. So, my rule is: plan to take the other 149 and keep shooting.
Hey Tech Nerd Friends! We're starting a complete rewrite on a web app that we developed in 2019-20 using:
Reactjs frontend
Nodejs backend
PostgresQL database
Hasura/GraphQL middleware
Nginx webserver
Docker containerization (rootful)
Thinking of moving to:
Reactjs/Nodejs --> Nextjs
Docker rootful --> rootless
And moving away from:
Hasura/GraphQL --> REST
Else, same.
Interested in *all* y'all's thoughts/comments/advice
This seems like great for our from especially in where our deranged premier destroys everything he touches.
Get up! Look in the mirror and make the most ridiculous face! Laugh at yourself. It is okay!
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List The Ways You Hurt Me, And I'll List The Ways I Hurt You Too
It's not about keeping score. It's about taking aim.
Anyone have recommendations for a good tinted lip balm
Must have visible color and not be sticky please
Im usually a lipstick girlie but would like an option that gives me some moisture instead of turning my lips into the Sahara
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How to Your and Keep It
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How do I tell my she needs to ...She is in constant because her poor cant handle this much ....
Advice for those willing to listen.
"Don't Believe Everything You Think
Learning to separate your thoughts and beliefs can change your life."
