I need advice from a tech person..
Help.
The little rubber piece beneath the space bar on my laptop broke off.
What can I use as a quick fix
I don't live near a town.
**Please boost
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Never turn your back on the ocean.
AdviceDo you have a better tactic to watch videos during your flight
Here is a question for all the community composters out there:
Can we compost raw eggs
What are the risks and/or benefits involved
We have covered these ones over with fine wood shavings to soak up the moisture and to prevent any smell getting out. Can't recall seeing "raw eggs" on anyone's compost input lists before now though!
Emma Sirus Reveals Her and
Some travel advice. When leaving on a journey pee once, then come back for something you forgot and pee again finally, when you are really, really ready to leave for the second time, take a last pee. Pee once more for each time you return after that.
IF THE BEST "CLAIM TO FAME" YOU CAN THINK OF IS "I'LL BE THE ONLY RAPPER WHO CUT HIS OWN DICK OFF" YOU SHOULD RETHINK YOUR CAREER CHOICES.
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I need some genuine advice about Ads on Twitch. I want to run the absolute MINIMUM that I can.
Is the best way to do this to run pre-roll ads so that I can disable the mid-roll ones entirely Or would most viewers genuinely prefer to see a 30 second ad every hour
"I had a with my new s husband, say Im too loud, and more"
If You Cant Muster Empathy, Shut Up!
Ive recently gotten a very shitty response to a vent of mine.
I decided to vent into the fediverse with this message:
So Im supposed to go on a lunch date with a guy this week. He hasnt talked since Saturday.
Im supposed to go on a date with a girl next weekend. She hasnt talked since Sunday.
I matched with another girl today, but she hasnt talked yet.
Wow, all those people, not talking to me. I feel so special!
This was just a vent. Im mildly annoyed, but not angry. I did not berate them for their silence. Im just venting in the fediverse. This is it.
Ive been on the dating apps for more than a year and a half. Ive run into a lot of deadbeats, scammers, you name it. I wont talk about the scammers here. However, the deadbeats have been many. Some people matched with me, never to talk. Some people matched with me, and immediately unmatched. Did they make a mistake In some case, I had a pleasant chat with someone who liked me, but they decided to unmatch without warning. This is not the odd occurrence.
I have no reason to believe that the people Im talking about are scammers or deadbeats, except for the last person. She looks real enough, so not a scammer, but she still hasnt talked. Her profile mentions two jobs. I get that time is tight, but a little message saying that she wont be available for a while would be nice. Im fairly sure shes not a scammer, but she might be a deadbeat. Time will tell.
I got one nice response to my vent above, but then I got this piece of shit advice, no doubt written by a neurotypical person:
Its Christmas/New Years. Maybe just stop expecting so much right now.
Oh, wow! Thank you for pointing out the obvious, asshole! I do know that we are in the holiday period. I do know that people are busy. I know this because the media makes sure to bleat that information any chance it gets, but also because Im frigging alone in my apartment with my cat while the rest of the world has the company of others. I do know that it is the bloody holiday right now!
Moreover, I dont think Im, in fact, expecting much. With the two first people I mention above, we were messaging each other at a significant pace, and then complete radio silence This is already alarming, that is, if you do care about the well-being of the people youre chatting with. However, whats more alarming is the timeline I had established with them.
The guy and I were planning a date for this week! Were now about half-way through this week and I havent heard anything. His last message was that he had to check with other people about his availability. Oh, and I do have a life of my own. My aunt and uncle want to talk to me through video chat. So I have to find time for them, and for my date. I tried to please everyone, but I dont think I can. Ive set up a time with my aunt and uncle that may very well conflict with this guys desire.
We autistic people want to please everyone, but sometimes circumstances work against us. However, we dont get to escape the anxiety this causes.
The situation with the first girl I mention above is similar. We were talking about a date this coming weekend, but theres now only two days between now and the weekend. She wants me to bed her. Consequently, we have things to discuss before the date happens, like STI status, and the scene I have in mind for her. Again, Im autistic. Im not super fond of surprises, especially in the bedroom, and with someone Im bedding for the first time. There are things I wont do with a partner on a first encounter.
It is not asking much for people to tell me clearly what is going on that may be preventing them from communicating with me. Ill note here that I do the same for them. If Im going to be unavailable, I tell them. Ive done this before when I had doctors appointments, or when I was tutoring.
Again, I was just venting. I was not planning to have to explain that my vent was borne out of actual life-experience with dating, and caring for my prospects. Still, thats often how it happens with neurotypical people. You say something, and then they imagine some solution that completely misses the mark.
How about you just listen
If you dont want to listen, ignore my vent.
If my vent stinks, mute me, or block me.
I dont need shitty advice that shows no empathy whatsoever.
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Wednesday Links - Edition 2023-12-27
Can I Ask My To Stop Making While Shes , And Other Column Questions
KWL 333 The Year in Review with the Kobo Writing Life Team -publishing
When you're walking through hell ...
keep walking.
Any ideas what to do with this visitor Lens has it as a Western conifer seed bug, doesn't belong here in southeast UK! If so it can apparently emit smelly stuff if I try to move it!
It can't stay where it is though.
Today's card is King of Swords.
Make informed decisions based on facts. If you need help, take advice from someone that's qualified to do so.
When someone is nasty, rude, hateful, or mean with you, pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them, which can soften the conflict.
If you desperately need a job, you are just another problem for a boss if you can solve many of the problems the boss has right now, you are hired. To be hired, think like your boss.
You are what you do. Not what you say, not what you believe, not how you vote, but what you spend your time on.
What I Wish I Knew At Age 18 - Hey From The Future
How Did You Do It
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Essential Tips & Key Factors for New Cam Girls to Kickstart a Successful Career!
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The Re-Connection Revolution With Celeste Halliday
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Found this in the box of Christmas decorations.
Anyone know it's intended purpose
Some very good advice from Theresa Reed, the Tarot Lady, for when the year has been hell and you are not feeling it. Take care of yourself.
>"The Hit List When youve had a hard year and dont feel the holiday spirit"
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Pro tip. When you get a login to a pension portal from an employer, make sure that everything is linked to your personal email. This should make it easier to find out how your pension is doing -- or where it even is -- in the future when you have not only left the company, but the company has disappeared off the face of the earth.
No room for forgiveness is a room for grudges (And hatred for that matter)
So long as there's room for the hatred, that will be what occupies the world.
I say this as one of my friends has ghosted me for seemingly no reason, two actually. But I know hatred isn't a healthy feeling to have and if I let it consume me, I make their actions more hate-able, thus unable to come to terms with it.
The What Now Podcast
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'Sprint'+'Crunch' are the kind of words used by companies to justify abusing their relationship with their workers
In order to obtain desired results without the responsible investment required
To obfuscate the fact companies didn't obtain the correct number of engineers required for a given project to be finished in the desired time-frame
NFL DFS Week 16 Early Look, Picks & Targets + Week 15 Recap 2023 Fantasy Football Advice
I'm updating my workflow for 2024, thinking of going full + + , but i need something for easy collab with non-R people (revisions, comments, etc.). Suggestions
I want to switch my mom off of Twitter as I only see her getting angry from the sensationalist drama party going on there. I am looking for on which to set her up on. She doesn't want to leave Twitter because of the related news feeds she follows so any good Ukraine people to follow would also be appreciated. Lastly, I 100% don't want her on the same instance I'm on.
Thanks
What can I do if Im in debt to my energy supplier
Speak to them as soon as possible
Seek debt advice
Save energy around your home
Heres what you need to know
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Humans who shave, but specifically those who use epilators:
What do you do to:
1. Get a cleaner shave, and
2. prevent raiser bumps
I've been using chemical products for years, and I hate them, but was never taught anything different and I'm either looking for advice or for different suggestions.
People who have more than one dog how important is it for the dogs to match energy levels Our current pup is pretty energetic, but Im more interested in mellow snugglers. But Id like them to still get along, of course.
A quotation from La Bruyere, Jean de:
There are some men who listen neither to reason nor to good advice, and who deliberately go astray through fear of being dominated.
Il se trouve des hommes qui ncoutent ni la raison ni les bons conseils, et qui sgarent volontairement par la crainte quils ont dtre gouverns.
Full quote, sourcing, notes:
Frontline To Boardroom
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The only advice, indeed, that one person can give another about reading is to take no advice, to follow your own instincts, to use your own reason, to come to your own conclusions.
Virginia Woolf, How Should One Read a Book (1932)
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